Farewell lad!

Do you  feel  lonely?
I think,...
it's my turn now, cause I am missing someone....

someone who isn't mine..
someone I shouldn't love..

someone who has a nice smile..
someone who really stubborn..
someone that you're  never likes before..
someone with bad attitude *-*
someone who change my opinion bout loving someone..
someone who will never turning back to you..
someone who really hates you..
someone who never called you back
someone who makes me cry..
someone who never knew how I feel..
someone who didn't care for my feeling..

and after all...

he is someone who I felt in love with...

Farewell lad! be good!

Until  we meet again...

with love,
Angela

A sister is a forever friend

She was and still my sister.. not in the same roots but I believe we have the same feeling in a distance, she was my bridesmaid, she was and still my supporter, my very close friend and undeniable probably one of my soul mate in life...

this is time when she was in Phuket Island

nice smile you have sis =)

with Budha statue, not her religion but she just admire the temple

She has the most amazing attitude, she's a unique figure, great independent role model for career woman, nice smile and really friendly and enthusiastic with life..

I've been so dearly lucky to have someone like her be grown up together..since we're teenager until we have our own choice of life...



Thank you sis,
to be with me, and I wish we could get along together until we grow old...

Dedicated to;

Dearly,...Muliani Widjaja
~Bunnie~

with love

Yiruma and his music

 I am a big fans of Yiruma

no doubt for that, not because he's d most handsome man on earth..but coz his fingers can play  melody from a piano... yes,  he's a pianist!

Yiruma is the stage name of Lee Ru-ma (born February 15, 1978), a South Korean pianist and composer. The name "Yiruma" means accomplishment in Korean.

Yiruma is well-known throughout the world, and his albums are sold all over Asia, as well as the North America and Europe. His best-known pieces are "River Flows in You", "Love Me" and "Kiss the Rain", the former two appearing in the album "First Love" (2001), and the latter appearing in the album "From The Yellow Room" (2003). Yiruma lived in Osaka, Japan, for six years before enlisting in the Republic of Korea Navy in July 2006 to begin his two-year military service, which is compulsory for all male South Koreans.

You only live once -- but if you work it right, once is enough.

Chapter 1

Every time I heard my girl friends telling me that their are gonna having a baby again.. my heart was suddenly stop beating for a sec..

then my face will show as pale as chalk ( imagine that...lol).. no, i am serious, that's like you heard something you scared about and wanted to.. ironic!! yes, that's the perfect word to tell..

I've been dreaming having baby again since my son was 2 years old.. but the crashed in my marriage was a truly disaster.. loosen up my whole idea about being a mother of huge numbers of children.. not to mention the twins babies I really want.. *-*

Well enough with my old story... today was shocking, one of my best girl friend just noted is pregnant with her third... congratulation for her..and a sad note and expression comes from mine... not for her off course.. but for my self....do you ever feel want something badly and then you know that  almost impossible for you to reach out... that is so frustrated.. so mentally drop..

I can't hide it.. I confessed that I really want more babies in my life.... maybe one or two, I just don't know how..  can't hide my sad emotion when my friend asked me what happen? by crying I said.. that was my hope to having more babies... more life whose trusted on me..more bless n purity soul in mine.. 

after saying that, she just looked at me and with  smile on her face, she told me.. you've been so lucky dear.. you've got one short life in this world. n nobody can change that.. you've been blessed with one child who has a unique personality, He trusted you more than anybody... He trusted you to take care of His special belonging.. don't you feel that? you've been blessed more than anything.. He trusted you more than anybody.. He doesn't give you a regular life, He gives you a special case, special journey, you just didn't realize.. ...

Chapter 2,....

You only live once -- but if you work it right, once is enough. ( I supposed so..) 

Conclusion;

- never regret 

- never ask

- never give up

- never stop believe

- never stop asking  your self with qstn why you looks so happy, before and after  years in your life.....

Swimming Day ^-^

as you know that ADHD can be treated by swimming..it's a good therapy for they to stretching and relaxing...

and Bryan enjoy the part of this therapy...

Understanding ADHD

“The child must know that he is a miracle, that since the beginning of the world there hasn't been, and until the end of the world there will not be, another child like him.”

What are the symptoms of ADHD?

ADHD symptoms usually arise in early childhood. Current diagnostic criteria indicate that the disorder is marked by behaviors that are long lasting and evident for at least six months, with onset before age seven. There are three primary subtypes, each associated with different symptoms.

ADHD - Primarily Inattentive Type:
• Fails to give close attention to details or makes careless mistakes.
• Has difficulty sustaining attention.
• Does not appear to listen.
• Struggles to follow through on instructions.
• Has difficulty with organization.
• Avoids or dislikes tasks requiring sustained mental effort.
• Is easily distracted.
• Is forgetful in daily activities.

ADHD - Primarily Hyperactive/Impulsive Type:
• Fidgets with hands or feet or squirms in chair.
• Has difficulty remaining seated.
• Runs around or climbs excessively.
• Has difficulty engaging in activities quietly.
• Acts as if driven by a motor.
• Talks excessively.
• Blurts out answers before questions have been completed.
• Has difficulty waiting or taking turns.
• Interrupts or intrudes upon others.

ADHD - Combined Type:
• Meets both inattentive and hyperactive/impulsive criteria.

Because everyone shows signs of these behaviors at one time or another, the guidelines for determining whether a person has ADHD are very specific. In children, the symptoms must be more frequent or severe than in other children of the same age. In adults, the symptoms must be present since childhood and affect one’s ability to function in daily life. These behaviors must create significant difficulty in at least two areas of life, such as home, social settings, school, or work.

What causes AD/HD?

Research has demonstrated that AD/HD has a very strong neurobiological basis. Although precise causes have not yet been identified, there is little question that heredity makes the largest contribution to the expression of the disorder in the population.

In instances where heredity does not seem to be a factor, difficulties during pregnancy, prenatal exposure to alcohol and tobacco, premature delivery, significantly low birth weight, excessively high body lead levels, and postnatal injury to the prefrontal regions of the brain have all been found to contribute to the risk for AD/HD to varying degrees.

Social Skills for Children with ADHD

For some children with ADHD, social interactions are problematic. The combination of impulsivity, immaturity, and difficulty reading the social cues of others can lead to difficult and painful peer relationships. Learning to get along with others is a challenge, whether at school, in sports, or with friends. But it doesn't have to be so hard. There are many things you can do to help your child develop a better set of social skills. 

Why Empathy Matters - Empathy is one of the most important characteristics of a successful adult. Being empathic means being able to place oneself inside the shoes of another person and to see the world through that person’s eyes. For many people affected by ADHD, it is very difficult to take another person's perspective.

Raise Your Child's Social IQ - A mother is concerned about her eight-year-old daughter, Taylor. While Taylor usually makes a good first impression when she meets other children, it’s extremely hard for her to develop lasting friendships.

The Social-Emotional Landscape - Social skills are a perennial issue for families and adults affected by ADHD.

Learning How to Get Along - Many children with learning disabilities and/or ADHD remain isolated, teased, and confused about how to interact successfully with their peers.

Managing Social Skills All Day, Every Day - A new survey helps shed light on parents’ perceptions of the all-day, every-day impact ADHD has on all the various aspects of a child’s life.

ADHD and (Mis)Perception of the Truth, (Mis)Interpretation, and Other “Honest Lying” Behaviors - Many people affected by ADHD find it difficult to know what is real and what is not when they communicate with others. This applies not only to what those with ADHD say but to what others around them hear.

Peer Problems - Many children with ADHD are among the most rejected of their classmates.

The Race is On: A Cooperative Game for Reducing Sibling Agression - Teasing, arguing, and physical aggression are typical among most children, and especially between siblings, given the amount of time they spend together. One group of researchers found that parents must cope with an average of eight conflicts between siblings per hour. Children with ADHD, in particular, face challenges when dealing with peers, and may need extra help in developing social skills.

Teaching the Fourth R: Relationships - Children with ADHD often have significant difficulty establishing and maintaining peer relationships. Because of their impulsive, unpredictable, and often disruptive behavior, they can, sadly, be rather unappealing social partners.

Know the Tipping Points: Reducing Vulnerability to Antisocial Behavior in Youth with ADHD - What British police have learned about reducing the vulnerability to antisocial and criminal behavior in youth with ADHD. h

 

Treatment to Improve Social Skills

Psychosocial Treatment for Children and Adolescents with ADHD (WWK #7)  - Psychosocial treatment is a critical part of treatment for ADHD in children and adolescents.

Psychosocial Intervention for ADHD: How Well Does It Work? - Many children and adolescents with ADHD are treated with various psychosocial interventions, including individual "talk" therapy, play therapy, family therapy, sensory integration therapy, and a host of others. Yet only one form of psychosocial treatment has been established in empirical trials as clearly effective for this population: the broad class of behavioral therapies, including parent training, school consultation, and social skills training.

Social Skills Improvement with ADHD Medication - When determining the best treatment regime for ADHD, it is very important to question both the child or adolescent and the parents about how medication affects social interaction in addition to academic performance.

reference ;

http://www.adhd.com

We'll find the way...

Having an ADHD syndrome like Bryant was never easy to be...

for one reason he was able to control his feeling, when he get the chance to know his friend any better... he glance at me and smile...

"mommy... please let me play with rio and marsha..  please..please..."
his smile wide open his mouth and show his little teeth....

my precious prince, whose coming out his way...to be a better child...

he was never pretending, never cheat, even mostly ADHD syndrome has a various type of being rude.. but he just give me love and understanding..

his rare attitude, confrontation, impatient sometime makes me uncomfortable...but if I look him in the eye..and find the true honest feeling down there.. suddenly my heart know the answer..

I must fight this, to save  this little cute monster that I brought to this life...

to share my life....and
my happiness...

that is why he's always deserve it.... to received it from me!

As I watch you sleeping,I think just how lucky I am.
To be the mother of such a beautifullittle boy…
from “As I Watch You Sleeping” 
by Sheryl Trowbridge

Good luck, son
with our life!!

Mom~